by Carolyn Swicegood
Have you ever dreamed of the "Bluebird of Happiness" landing on your shoulder?
It can happen, and luckily, it happened to me!
One bright and breezy early Summer afternoon in the Blue Ridge mountains of North
Carolina, my mother, my five-year old daughter, and I were walking along a quiet, winding
road near our Summer home in the mountain woodlands. Suddenly a young bird with Cornflower
blue feathers and a bright blue crest flew from the surrounding woods and landed confidently
on my shoulder! It was a beautiful young Blue Jay with the beadiest, shiniest black eyes
I had ever seen. He was completely fearless and after an inquisitive look into my eyes,
peeked into my mouth which was now open wide in amazement at what had just transpired!
Thinking that
this was a wild bird so disoriented that it had lost its natural fear of humans, we turned
and started walking toward home, hoping to take the Blue Jay indoors and figure out just
what was wrong with him. On the way home, he repeatedly flew off into the woods and then
back onto my shoulder, but I felt sure that he would fly away when I attempted to walk into
the house with him. Amazingly, as I cautiously entered the house, the friendly bird stayed
put, looking more curious than afraid. Once inside, I took him into a small room and
offered him my hand. He stepped right up with a look that seemed to say, "What's up Doc?"
He then allowed me to examine him from stem to stern as I became more and more curious
about this seemingly healthy "wild" bird who had no fear of humans; indeed, he seemed to
like us!
While we worried
that any minute he would start to show signs of illness, he flew around exploring every
nook and cranny of his newly-found playhouse--a chalet-style house with ceilings so high
that even a resident of the sky felt right at home. He immediately took inventory of all
things bright and shiny and he wasted no time laying claim to his many new treasures
The rules of his game were simple--whatever he could carry in his beak was HIS! While
we tried to tempt him with food and water, he busily gathered all the bright coins,
marbles, and other objects that caught his eye. It seemed that the objective of his
earlier search of the house had been not only to find hidden treasures, but to search for
places to stash the loot!
It was open season on
any and all good hiding places, such as light fixtures, book shelves, and cabinet tops.
What a busy bird he was! Blue Jays in the wild hide and bury seeds and acorns for leaner
times to come, planting many trees in the process. At least our blue feathered friend's
instincts were very much intact.
After all his hard work, we knew that our guest must be hungry, and a quick search of
the Nature Encyclopedia told us that this busy bundle of blue feathers needed BUGS! The
natural food source of Blue Jays is acorns and other vegetable matter but they also relish
protein-providing insects. When darkness fell, all the deck lights were switched on, and no
poor Katydid that was drawn to the bright lights escaped the busy hands of two excited
young girls intent on catching dinner for their new friend, "BJ", as he now had been
dubbed. He was a happy feathered camper as he eagerly gulped down the winged and wiggly
insects caught lovingly just for him. He then threw back his head over and over as he took
down many a beakful of pure, cool mountain water, perhaps to chase the buggy taste.
After a few
seeds--we were unforgivably out of acorns--and a peanut for dessert, he started nodding
off so we set off on a tour of the house trying to think like Blue Jays in search of a
suitable roosting site. BJ chose the highest available perch--a shower curtain rod in a
quiet guest bath. He was clearly fascinated by the sixties-style psychedelic looking
wallpaper. While he slept, we pondered the mysteries of our most exotic houseguest ever.
We collected our resources and set about to learn more about "Blue Jay ways".
We learned that
Eastern Blue Jays generally are about thirteen inches long with a wingspan over a foot
wide; that they are members of the Corvidae family which includes forty or so different
Crows, as well as Magpies, Jackdaws, Rooks, and Nutcrackers; and that Corvids are
considered to be extremely intelligent birds with the Blue Jay members of the family
having mischievous personalties as well as a raucous "Jay! Jay!" call. Recently when I
read new research on the Corvids suggesting that they possess powers of abstract reasoning,
creativity, memory and insight that put them on a par with many mammals, including
primates, I was not at all surprised having observed our own resident Blue Jay.
Now I must point
out that a Blue Jay waking up in a new house is about a hundred times more excited than
you and I were upon awakening on our first morning of Summer camp. There were new people
and new places to see, and so much to do! There is no such word as "boredom" in Jaybird
speak! Every object in BJ's view was a toy just waiting to be activated by the antics
conjured up in his hyperactive imagination. The light string in the top of a closet
caught his eye and in a blurring flash of blue, he was Tarzan swinging through the
jungle of closet junque on his makeshift vine!
A jewelry box was an unbelievable find for BJ--a treasure trove of unimaginable value
and he didn't even need a treasure map! He instantly was transformed into
"Bluebeard, Pirate" on a mission! Finder's keepers! Grab all the gold and precious jewels
that a beak can carry and it's every bird for himself! Yipeeee! BJ had already struck
it rich in his new home! We were awed by the sheer energy with which he pursued his
many adventures. His intense curiosity was a wondrous and endless thing! Absolutely
nothing escaped his notice!
After a few fun days indoors, it became obvious that BJ was a happy and healthy bird
so we reluctantly set him free, watching him leave us from our upper deck in the tree
tops. He flew off into the woods and we wistfully waved good-bye to our much-loved
feathered friend. "Huh? Good-bye? You think I'm leaving! No way!" he seemed to say as he
banked a steep left and flew back into the house!
Hurray! We
obviously were blessed with an indoor/outdoor wildbird pet! Never have I enjoyed hiking
in my beloved wild woods more than when accompanied by BJ, who excitedly flew from tree
to tree, calling to me as we explored the forest wilderness together. For the remainder
of the Summer, BJ came and went as he pleased. Often, we had only to call his name from
the deck, and suddenly as if by magic, he would appear. Sometimes he was out of touch for
hours, but he always returned for a bedtime snack and a safe haven in which to rest.
Once he disappeared for three agonizingly long days and nights, and we fretted as we
feared the worst. After searching for hours and inquiring at the clubhouse of the
ski & golf resort where we live, we learned that a Blue Jay had been hanging around the
kitchen of the golfer's Snack Shack, taking handouts from a new chef friend. On the
third afternoon of his unbearably long absence, BJ suddenly reappeared on the front
deck, flew into our house, made himself at home and resumed sleeping indoors at night.
Maybe our accommodations were not so bad after all. It was a happy reunion for all!
During the
Summer that we were blessed with BJ's presence, my daughters never once complained of
nothing to do. With the feathered wonder around, there was an abundance of fun stuff
for them to do because their bird friend immersed himself completely in their every
activity--drawing, painting, clay sculpting, board games, hiking, and even playing in
water! He stole pencils, crayons and paintbrushes with glee, flying hither and yon
until he found a suitably inaccessible place to stash them before returning for more.
Years later we still find BJ's treasures hidden in remote corners of the house. He
was quite the artist, "helping" with many drawings and paintings, with the complete
approval of Angie and Kristi, his adoring young friends! Otherwise, he could be found
perching atop their heads, busily demonstrating his skills as an artistic stylist of
hair and feathers!
A collection of
an inch of water or more was the only excuse needed by BJ for a glorious BATH! He
adored bathing, which he did with the same gusto applied to everything that he
did--wildly splashing, dunking his head and body under the water while twisting and
turning till the last tiny feather was drenched beyond recognition. He had a
particularly stern look with an equally harsh "CAW" that he reserved for anyone
daring to bathe without him. After a bath, he enjoyed preening himself dry in a
sunny window. His all-time favorite bathing method was in the bathtub with his five
year old playmate who adoringly held him on his favorite bathing limb while he had a
splashingly good time!
Our Summer with BJ seemed the shortest in history. All too soon, it was time for
the girls' schools to start in Florida and we worried about the effect on BJ of
the engine noise of our small plane. I questioned my pilot husband about flight
details and prepared a travel cage and thick cover for BJ, hoping for the best
and wishing that we were driving instead of flying home.
The night before we were to leave our cool Summer paradise, I put in the usual call
to our local friend who takes care of our house when we, like most of our "snowbird"
neighbors, fly South for the Winter. As I was sharing with Fred my worry about the
plane noise being too stressful for our Blue Jay friend, I was stunned into silence
as Fred told me that the Stevens family who lived just around the mountain from us,
a short distance from where BJ first found us, had lost their young Blue Jay at the
beginning of the Summer! They had raised a Blue Jay baby after it fell from a nest near
their Winter home and had brought it with them to the mountains at the beginning of
Summer. Amazed, I learned that they were from Miami, only ten miles from where we live
in the Winter. They had even given their baby Blue Jay the same name that we had!
My heart sank
at the thought of telling my daughters that "their BJ" had another home. I knew that
they would be heartbroken at the thought of giving him up, but I also knew that his
first family must have been heartbroken when BJ became our baby. I sadly thought about
all their pain of loss and worry as we enjoyed the bird that they had raised. After a
tearful family discussion, we all agreed that there was only one RIGHT choice. While
sadly looking at my daughters' damp eyes and long faces, I dialed the phone with a
painful lump in my own throat. Mrs. Stevens answered and was ecstatic to learn that
her Blue Jay baby was alive and well. We immediately went for a visit with them and
watched BJ as he left no doubt in our minds that he was right at home with this family.
In fact, BJ's first human mother was about my height with dark hair much like mine.
Perhaps he mistook me for her on that early Summer Sunday that he found me walking
near his Summer home.
Our two families traded BJ tales and discussed which Florida home would be best for
him. In spite of long sad looks from Angie and Kristi, we all agreed that BJ would return
to his roots in Miami where he would once again have free run of the woods adjoining the
Stevens' home. Best of all, he could make the trip in their car! There were tearful
farewells to our beloved BJ.....and later we learned that he took up with a flock of
wild Blue Jays in his original territory, perhaps his long-lost relatives, and BJ
returned to the wild before his second birthday.
It was a real success story for our not-so-wild but wonderful Blue Jay. There's an
old saying that goes, "You can never possess the heart of a wild bird. It possesses you."
I suppose it is true that neither of his families ever really owned BJ, but little
thief that he was, he stole all of our hearts and not one of us has ever forgotten BJ,
our own little blue bird of happiness.
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